Me and him are married, 12 years ago. We have 3 sons and One daughter. Their ages are from 10 to 3 years. My husband is loving and caring. He has never showed any form of anger on us. Even, if he has a lot of stress in work, he has never showed it to us. When people come across his stress, they will be shocked to see him being so calm at home.

When we see him during the day time and a person inside a society, we get a feeling that, he is one of the best persons. But, at night, the way he behaves, creates a doubt, if he is really a man ? We might think that he is a gay or a transgender . But, he is not one. He is a crossdresser. He is attracted to wear the clothes that are meant to be worn by the gender of opposite sex. He used to decorate like a person in opposite sex and admire his beauty.

After I got pregnant for the second time, I came to know that my husband is a crossdresser. I was suspecting him to be a gay or transgender, but he gave a explanation and I researched about them in internet, I came to know that there are a lot of people like this in the world and they are known as crossdressers.

I never knew, if someone can show love and care like my husband. Usually, men used to show their anger from office to the people inside their home. But, my husband is different. He never took the household problems to Office and Official problems to house.

Instead of telling him as a lovable guy, he is a genuine person. He does all the works in a planned manner. He never hesitated in spending time with children. He takes care of our health in a proper manner. Even, he gave me a proper sexual life as well. But, the crossdresser inside him, was not liked by him. After sometime, I understood it as a proper thing. He behaves like a crossdresser, just once in a while.

When, we were in childhood, our parents used to dress up, male kids in female clothes and female kids in male clothes, this might have increased their curiosity to dress up in the clothes that belongs to opposite gender. But, for the past 2 years, I was able to see a drastic change in his crossdressing activites. Now, he not only likes to dress up in girly attire, but he wants to have sex with me in that attire as well.

At the initial stages, I began to say a Big No. From that moment, we started to have a lot of break between us. That too during sexual intercourse. He wants me to fulfill his desire, he becomes very angry when I reject it. Seeing her husband in a girly attire is a big problem, how can we have sex with a husband who wears a girly attire. It was uncomfortable to us, it is very harsh for me. I feel like I am having sex with a lady. I don’t know, if I can take it lightly or leaving this without care was my fault ? Do I need to take them to a Psychist ? I am under that big confusion.

I explained this to one of my close friends. She spoke to one of her closest psychiatrist friend, they said “Being a crossdresser is not a big problem, but forcing people to do the same is a problem. He recommended me to bring him to counselling. But, my husband won’t agree with me to take me to Psychiatrist. I want my husband to come out of this and take him to psychatrist.

I am unable to proceed and need some suggestions to bring my crossdressing husband out of this addiction ….